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Early July, and the corn in eastern Nebraska stands ten feet tall; after a near-decade of drought, it seems too good to be true, and everyone is watching the sky for trouble. For the Grebels, whose plots of organic crops trace a modest patchwork among the vast fields of soybeans and corn, trouble arrives from a different quarter in the form of Elsa's voice on her estranged son's answering machine: "Your father's dead. You'll probably want to come home."
In the wake of the accident that fells the patriarch of this Mennonite family, the threads holding them together are suddenly drawn taut, singing with the tensions of a lifetime's worth of love and faith, betrayal and shame. Through the competing voices of those gathered for Haven Grebel's funeral, acts of loyalty and failures, long-suppressed resentments and a tragic secret are brought to light, expressing a larger, complex truth.
“Sometimes the title of a book captures its content perfectly. Such is the case with Haven’s Wake, Ladette Randolph’s novel of modern Mennonite life and death and family secrets. When Haven Grabel, an eighty-five-year-old family patriarch, dies in a tractor accident on his Nebraska farm, his children and grandchildren and in-laws immediately gather around his grieving widow. They mean well but, during the two days preceding Haven’s funeral, an array of old antagonisms are revisited and long-buried grievances come to the surface. Haven’s Wake, of course, refers to those two days, the family vigil that they all must endure. But “wake,” in this case, means more than simply the Grabels’s ritualistic watch. It also implies the aftermath, the consequences, the trail that follows in Haven Grabel’s absence. Without his presence, the present unravels in patterns reminiscent of the past. Randolph is especially adept at weaving Mennonite beliefs into her story of familial angst. The habit of shunning, of turning away from someone whose behavior or beliefs are unacceptable, plays a key role. So does the habit of never talking about something painful, never discussing tragedy, never confronting issues. Elsa, Haven’s widow, is particularly adroit at ignoring whatever she doesn’t want to acknowledge or admit. Her sons and her grandchildren are equally adroit at reopening old family wounds and laying them bare. If all this sounds like a sobering reading experience, rest assured it isn’t. Haven’s Wake may offer a realistic narration of grief and uncomfortable family history, but it also pulls together new connections and new ways of understanding. Elsa may be flawed in many ways, but she loves her offspring and she believes in her church. When she is most troubled, she plays hymns on her piano, singing softly to herself or in harmony with others. And when the family relationships are fraying, the sense of community prevails. Friends support friends, family supports family, and those threads hold the story lines together like one of Elsa’s beautiful quilts. Another wonderful element of this touching novel is Randolph’s sense of the rural Nebraska landscape. Returning readers of “Bookin’ with Sunny” know that I always appreciate a writer who draws scenery well. Throughout Haven’s Wake we hear the cicada and grasshopper and bumblebee songs, smell the tasseled corn, touch the rich black soil, watch thunderheads build and disperse. As the novel nears its climax, a summer storm inundates a nearby town but completely misses the Grabel farm. So, too, the family storms may batter the participants but they ultimately continue their lives together and apart. In the hands of an inexperienced author, this parallel would be too heavy-handed. Randolph, however, handles the connection with great finesse. After the funeral home viewing, when problems and passions are most tense and intense, one of the Grabel wives says to her husband, “You know, Jonathan, yours isn’t the only family that behaves badly when it’s grieving.” How very true. Closing Haven’s Wake, I just now glanced at the cover and for a moment misread the title. My eyes saw “Heaven’s Wake,” rather than Haven’s. Perhaps that’s part of the title’s magic, and the novel’s magic, too. Despite the grievances, the family endures. That’s the real aftermath of Haven Grabel’s demise.”
—Ann Ronald
“Haven, the aptly named patriarch of a rural Mennonite family in eastern Nebraska, dies in a bizarre tractor accident, which reunites his family for several days in July 2009. Disparate and even dysfunctional, the Grebel clan is forced onto the farm’s close quarters where long-ignored secrets and tragedies threaten to surface, despite the desperation of Haven’s widow, Elsa, to keep them buried. Will Elsa finally forgive her son for renouncing the Mennonite religion and lifestyle? Will brothers Jonathan and Jeffrey let a sibling’s horrific but decades-old death tear them further apart? Will granddaughter Anna June cope with the loss of her best friend? . . .Randolph thoughtfully contemplates individuality in a community of conformity, truth in a world of evasiveness, and honesty in a sea of hurt. With prose that vivifies the intricate patchwork of characters and captures the landscape’s simplicity, Haven’s Wake explores “the various attempts to explain the unexplainable,” including family, faith, and death.”
—Katharine Fronk, Booklist
“Elsa Grebel, over her long life, has decided that some things are better to ignore. Others are better to forget. And many are better not to know at all. So, when a neighbor tells Elsa that her husband, Haven, has died in a tractor accident, it’s not in Elsa’s nature to question the neighbor’s claim that Haven “didn’t suffer none.” “Haven’s Wake” is the second novel from Ladette Randolph, a fifth-generation Nebraskan who currently edits the literary journal Ploughshares. As in her previous novel, A Sandhills Ballad, Haven’s Wake is set in rural Nebraska, but this time in the (fictional) Mennonite community of Bethel -- an easy drive from Lincoln and Seward -- over five July days before and after Haven’s funeral. Elsa’s two sons, Jonathan and Jeffrey, have strayed in their own ways. Jonathan, the better adjusted of the two, has given up the faith and lives in Boston. Jeffrey, who still lives nearby, has significant mental health issues (probably bipolar disorder) and seems to resent his brother’s escape. The Grebels are far from perfect; and even Elsa, the most strict observer of the faith, has more in common with the heterodox Jonathan than she would ever admit. By choosing to suppress a deep secret in an effort to keep themselves together, the family ultimately opens its deepest fissures. Chapters alternate between the perspectives of the stubborn Elsa, who grows more unlikeable as the book progresses; to Jonathan, who has the most to learn from revisiting his past; and to Anna June, the youngest grandchild (Jeffrey’s daughter) and the book’s most charming character, who keeps a “True Secret History” of Bethel’s hidden stories. As in Marilynne Robinson’s “Gilead”-- another Midwestern novel concerned with the religious -- the pious and righteous in Randolph’s work are as complicated as the so-called apostates. Lincoln readers will recognize a few landmarks, including Tam O’Shanter and O Street, but may also concur with local insights: In Nebraska, “[y]ou couldn't not notice the sky and the way it made you feel at once infinitesimal and at the center of everything.” Randolph lives in Boston (Ploughshares is published at Emerson College), but she seems at home in the Great Plains. While occasionally veering too far into the sentimental, the story is quietly powerful. Randolph’s sentences are spry, unpretentious and often refreshing. The book is less about faith and more about how open we are to our deepest scars: Elsa may think ignorance bliss, but for Jonathan, “once he'd become aware” of the world outside, “he couldn't pretend not to know.”
—Greg Walklin, Lincoln Journal online